advice column: dating woes
my sister asked:
ok (sis) here is my question...and maybe it will seem silly. so theres this guy...i think you know who i am talking about. he is home for the next two weeks seeing his family. he calls me this morning and we are talking...he says "i was out with my friendst last night and ran into my friend krystle (who he just happened to date breifely in high school) she had this cool tattoo she drew up of a (quote) CUPCAKE AND CROSSBONES, and said if i want it she knows a guy who will do it for free" first off...cupcake and crossbones, fucking stupid! seccondly, he has a tattoo that i drew, and i didn't fully appreciate the idea of him getting a tattoo his x-girl drew. then i find out later SHE also has the tattoo, along with a couple friends. AND he wants to get it in the same place. his reasoning is that it is funny and spontaneous...whatever. So now, not only does he want a stupid tattoo, BUT an x drew it, AND she HAS it...AND he wants it in the SAME PLACE! am i just being silly or do i have reason to be mad??? and also, when i try to explain how i feel he says i am being stupid and need to lay off.....and refuses to even TRY and understand how i feel....(that just goes back to the double standard he holds me to) what do do....ohhh what to do???
a cupcake and crossbones...SERIOUSLY? i don't really think there's anything i can say to that. i'm speechless (and that rarely happens). i think you know exactly what to do in this situation.
ok (sis) here is my question...and maybe it will seem silly. so theres this guy...i think you know who i am talking about. he is home for the next two weeks seeing his family. he calls me this morning and we are talking...he says "i was out with my friendst last night and ran into my friend krystle (who he just happened to date breifely in high school) she had this cool tattoo she drew up of a (quote) CUPCAKE AND CROSSBONES, and said if i want it she knows a guy who will do it for free" first off...cupcake and crossbones, fucking stupid! seccondly, he has a tattoo that i drew, and i didn't fully appreciate the idea of him getting a tattoo his x-girl drew. then i find out later SHE also has the tattoo, along with a couple friends. AND he wants to get it in the same place. his reasoning is that it is funny and spontaneous...whatever. So now, not only does he want a stupid tattoo, BUT an x drew it, AND she HAS it...AND he wants it in the SAME PLACE! am i just being silly or do i have reason to be mad??? and also, when i try to explain how i feel he says i am being stupid and need to lay off.....and refuses to even TRY and understand how i feel....(that just goes back to the double standard he holds me to) what do do....ohhh what to do???
a cupcake and crossbones...SERIOUSLY? i don't really think there's anything i can say to that. i'm speechless (and that rarely happens). i think you know exactly what to do in this situation.
4 Comments:
At 05 July, 2006 10:54,
Anonymous said…
how much do you really like this guy? what entitles you to think you have any say to what he does with his body? are you pro-choice?
i would say, tell him to wait cause if he gets a tattoo you want to go with him. offer to pay for it. but make him wait a week after he gets back home to decide if he really wants it. there is a good chance he'll change his mond once he's out of that environment.
but then again, i think a cupcake and crossbones is cool, so what do i know?
At 06 July, 2006 11:41,
sladkaya said…
hubs, you should start an advice column, too!
At 06 July, 2006 16:10,
LuccyM33 said…
Dear Sladkaya's sister:
I think I know the perfect solution.
Come dancing with me on Sat. There's plenty of fish in the sea! You are young and pretty and extremely brilliant. 'Tis a pitty to waste that splender on a boy with a cupcake tattoo.
At 08 July, 2006 14:46,
Anonymous said…
have you ever heard of johnny cupcakes??
independent fashion designer out of boston.
they probably ripped it off.
check it out --> http://www.johnnycupcakes.com
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